I will talk about atheism at the bottom of this post. Let me start with theism.
For most people, belief in the “whatever” (see post number 2) comes natural, is effortless. They just recognize there is something, the “whatever”. They may not even consider it a belief. For many, the “whatever’s” existence is so obvious that they consider it a given, a fact, beyond question, beyond doubt.
Many people have no problem calling the “whatever” “god”. Other people, however, don’t like to call it “god”. For them, that’s too loaded a term.
For some people, believing in a personal god is easy peasy. These include folks that have been brought up in this belief and did not loose their faith when growing up, when being told that it is unintelligent and unreasonable to hold such a belief. Or when finding out that the moral imperatives of their belief can be quite inconvenient. 😉
Very few people start believing in a personal god because they experience an epiphany (don’t we envy them?).
For all other people (those not brought up in this belief to begin with, those who got tricked out of their faith, or those without epiphany) it can be quite hard to begin (first time or anew) and continue believing in a personal god.
They may have to overcome the notion that it unreasonable or even unintelligent to believe in a personal god. They also have to find a type of personal god that is believable to them. This may mean avoiding a god that has been adorned with dogmata that, for them, are too “demanding”, too “unbelievable” or against their moral fabric.
Making the decision to (try to) believe (for the first time or again) in a personal god is perfectly legitimate and does not mean one is dimlit, unreasonable, unscientific. It may be the most reasonable thing to do for a rational person (later posts will explain why).
The same for decisions to not call the “whatever” “god”, to not believe in a personal god, and so on. These, too, may be legitimate positions that deserve our respect.
So, let’s not derogate each other. We may find another person’s beliefs personally unacceptable, even ridiculous, but this alone is no justification for attacking their intellectual or moral integrity. More about this in later posts.
However, all this does not mean that we have to stay quiet when a belief causes people to inflict unreasonable self-harm or to do things that we consider unethical – whatever that is. … Getting into very deep waters here. More about this, too, in later posts.